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What would you do?....you make
the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway.
My question is: Would you have made the same choice?
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At a fundraising dinner for a school that
serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the
students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who
attended. After extolling the school and its
Dedicated staff, he
offered a question:
'When not interfered with by outside
influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.
Yet my
son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand
things as other children do.
Where is the natural order of things
in my son?'
The audience was stilled by the query.
The
father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally
and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize
true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people
treat that child.'
Then he told the following story:
Shay
and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing
baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most
of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a
father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it
would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be
accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
I approached one of
the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play.
The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and
the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll
try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning..'
Shay struggled over
to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt.. I
watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw
my joy at my son being accepted.
In the bottom of the eighth
inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.
In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the
right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic
just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I
waved to him from the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning,
Shay's team scored again.
Now, with two outs and the bases loaded,
the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at
bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their
chance to win the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat.
Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even
know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the
Plate, the pitcher,
recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment
in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay
could at least make contact.
The first pitch came and Shay swung
clumsily and missed.
The pitcher again took a few steps forward to
toss the ball softly towards Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay swung
at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.
The game would now be over.
The pitcher picked up the soft grounder
and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.
Shay
would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head,
out of reach of all team mates.
Everyone from the stands and both
teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!
Run to first!'
Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first
base.
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'
Catching his
breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make
it to the base.
By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the
right fielder had the ball . The smallest guy on their team who now had
his first chance to be the hero for his team.
He could have thrown
the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the
pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far
over the third-baseman's head.
Shay ran toward third base
deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'
Shay
reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by
turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!
Shay, run to third!'
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both
teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home!
Run home!'
Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered
as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team
'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,
'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity
into this world'.
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died
that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy,
and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of
the day!
AND NOW A LITTLE FOOT NOTE TO THIS STORY:
We all
send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but
when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate.
The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace,
but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools
and workplaces.
If you're thinking about sharing this, chances are
that you're probably sorting out the people in your address book who
aren't the 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message Well, the
person who sent you this believes that we all can make a difference.
We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help
realize the 'natural order of things.'
So many seemingly trivial
interactions between two people present us with a choice:
Do we
pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up those
opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the process?
A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's
least fortunate amongst them.
You now have two choices:
1. Forget the whole thing
2. Forward a link
to others
MAY GOD BLESS EACH OF YOU REGARDLESS OF YOUR CHOICE.
May your day, be a Shay Day.
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